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Thursday, August 1, 2019

Nathalie Fiset, Author of I Will Always Be Here For You

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Today we are interviewing Nathalie Fiset, M.D. about her children’s picture book, titled “I Will Always Be Here For You.”

Tell us a bit about yourself. 
Nathalie Fiset, M.D., is a retired family doctor and a mother of four. She still does medical missions in third world countries. She is the author of fiction and non-fiction books like The Reading Glasses Lie available on Amazon.


Describe your new book, “I Will Always Be Here For You,” in a few sentences. 
Mr Fizz is always here to help his little girl and her dog.Sometimes though, life changes and people we love leave us. A children's book about aging, losing people and grief.

Who do you think would most appreciate this book?
Children age 3 and up. Parents who need to address grief and the loss of a family member with their children.

What inspirations contributed to this book?
Mr Fizz, my father!

Tell us about the protagonist, Mr Fizz.
He was as colorful and reliable as the book shows. He loved to invent stuff and joke a lot. It was kind of like having my own Walt Disney! His most important value was family.

The story has a theme about aging, losing people, and grief. What inspired you to write about this theme?
When my father passed away, I felt a huge void in my life. We were very close seeing each other more than 20 times per year. But that is not just me, Mr Fizz was like that with  his five children and 14 grandchildren.

Was it difficult translating grief, a complex topic, in a way that is approachable for children?
Not really. When my father passed away, it touched my child heart. I had lost my Daddy. After all, even though I am 54 years old, he still called me madam Zoozoo or little girl.

What was the illustration process like for you?
I had hired someone from Fiverr but even though I explained exactly what I was seeing, he just sent generic images and did not render the images I was seeing. So, I had to learn drawing! I am very proud of the final images as they reflect the fun and colorful images I needed for telling my story.

Is there an author that had a major influence on your writing style?
Dr Seuss, Robert Munsch (Love you Forever which I read to my children thousands of times) and to a different extend, of course, J.K. Rowling.

Who was your favorite character to write?
Mr Fizz.

How do you think you've evolved as a writer since when you first started?
My God! I learned to draw on paint 3D, learned to format children’s books “with bleed” (lost a lot of blood there!), reformat after being rejected by Amazon kindle store so many times. I discovered a passion for children’s books and wrote other books like spot the differences and find the penguin having lots of fun doing so.

Are there any aspects (e.g. character building, world building) of your writing that you've been practicing?
My father thought by example and I like to think that I too give more than what is expected of me, show up when I say I will and can overcome small differences of opinions and dust myself up.

What are your goals as a writer for the next ten years?
I love the saying for children book’s writers: Teach don’t preach. I want to write more stories and game books and have fun doing it. I also want to continue my bigger project called The Pregnancy Chronicles a series of ten pregnancy books that read like novels (based on my experience delivering 3700 babies during my 25 year medical career).

How have your readers responded to the book so far?
I just launched it.

Is there any aspect of writing you don't like?
Editing since English is not my primary language. But, I found a good editor. That big gap when the book is done but you need to work at it which seams forever.

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Author Nathalie Fiset.
Have you ever had writer's block? If yes, how'd you deal with it? If you have not had writer's block, why do you think you haven't?
I did not have writer’s block as I do not force myself to have to write on certain days. Ideas and dialogues are like a hamster running in my head during the day. I just write them down. I also keep a notepad on my nightstand so that I can go back to sleep after writing down the golden nugget my subconscious mind sent me as a gift!

What do you have in mind for your next project?
I have been creating game books for children and I am in the beginning stages of a new story about love.

Is there anything else you'd like potential readers to know about your book?
The story was very easy to write as it came straight from my heart. Putting the images, text and pages together was a learning curve and not a child’s play.  Now I know why so many people say they want to write a children’s book but do not do it.

Thank you,
Nathalie Fiset

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Friday, June 12, 2015

Trevor Halloway, Author of Ashes and Asphalt

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Today we are interviewing Trevor Halloway, author of the action/adventure novel "Ashes and Asphalt."

Tell us a bit about yourself.
Hi, my name is Rob...but I write as Trevor Halloway because my real name is rather common. On occasion, I homebrew, raise three dogs and two cats, hate people who take up two parking spaces, love Gravity Falls, and I'm the only person to have a video project banned at my community college and STILL get an A.

Describe the plot of your new book in a few sentences.
Mike and Kyle Byrne have to bring their dad to the annual Sturgis Bike Rally. There's only two problems: he's dead and they can't stand one another. The brothers are forced to work together and bring "Wild" Bill's ashes from Florida to South Dakota in five days. Along the way, they'll face obstacles, not the least of which is their hardheadedness.

Who do you think would most appreciate this book?
People who have their own issues with family (at varying degrees, natch), bikers, and anyone that likes a little gallows humor in their stories.

What inspired you to write about two brothers who go an adventure in attempt to fulfill their father’s last wish?
Part of it comes from my own connections with my brothers. I wish I could say that we did a lot together, but circumstances had kept us apart. I get along with them well, but it could've been far better. In a way, the book has been cathartic for me.

Tell us a bit about the book’s protagonists.
Mike and Kyle are near polar opposites. Mike's the family man who left Florida and got a 9 to 5 job. He's the responsible brother and tries to steer things in the direction that he thinks is best. Kyle's more of a carefree spirit. He still lives in Florida and followed their father's footsteps much closer than Mike. He believes that his father would've wanted a much grander road trip than what his brother suggested. In truth, both brothers did (and do) love their dad and are willing to put aside their issues to honor the old man's wishes.

There are a lot of actions scenes in the book, from run-ins with bikers and carjackers to avoiding the police. Was there an action scene that was particularly fun for your to write?
Fun action part? If I said which one, it will give away more of the story than I would like to reveal. :)

Humor is a big part of this book. Has humor always been a part of your writing or is this something that has developed recently?
It's always been there, but not honed until the last couple of years. People would tell me that my stories were funny...especially when I didn't try. I figured...why not go with it?

The book takes place in a variety of locations, from Florida to South Dakota. What made you decide to set the story in these locations?
South Dakota is where the bike rally is held, so I had to stay true to that. Florida was a good starting state. I couldn't have them ride from Minnesota to there...that would be a novella at the most!

Are there any authors who have influenced your writing style?

Oddly enough, horror writer Brian Lumley. Besides him, Terry Pratchett. I got some of my humor from him. The biggest influence would be my friend, Walt Bucklin. He was my friend Jason's dad, and later my own.

Who was your favorite character to write?
Ivan. He's a minor character that follows along the same path as the brothers and is put in truly horrible situations. He's like the gravediggers in Hamlet; mainly a comic relief, but that doesn't mean his own tribulations are of no consequence.

How do you feel about the increasing popularity of ebooks?
If it gets more people reading...I'm all for it.

What are your goals as a writer for the next ten years?

Knock out a few more novels, maybe a short story or two. Then I could pull an Arthur Rimbaud.

Is there any aspect of writing you don't like?
Editing. It's a pain, but it must be done if you want to be taken seriously. My tip: hire an editor.

Have you ever had writer's block? If yes, how'd you deal with it? If you have not had writer's block, why do you think you haven't?
Many times. A beer sometimes helps me relax and then the thoughts come pouring in. I don't recommend that option to recovering alcoholics or persons under 21.

Do you write with a computer, typewriter, or pen and paper? Why do you use this tool?

Varies. I used to write it out, then go on the computer. I now go straight to the keyboard.

What do you have in mind for your next project?
I hate answering this question because there's a small part of me that fears someone will run with my idea, but I do have an idea about a stripper turned detective. Believe it or not, I'm trying to keep it under NC-17. If Stan Lee could do it, so can I.

Is there anything else you'd like potential readers to know about your book?
That it's far better than Twilight (avoids the glares of sparkly vampire fans). Just kidding (but no, seriously...it is...)


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Sunday, May 17, 2015

Mildred Potash, Author of Millie and Cupcake

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Today we are interviewing Mildred Potash, author of the children's book Millie and Cupcake.

Tell us a bit about yourself.
My name is Mildred Potash. I am from Brooklyn, New York. I have always loved animals since I was a child. My very first pets were two rats, and during my  life I  have  enjoyed the companionship of hamsters, guinea pigs, two ferrets, a cat and dogs. My appreciation of the warmth and intelligence of rats inspired me to write this book.  I earned my  associates degree in arts  and   now  I  will receive my bachelor's degree in multimedia.


Describe the plot of your book, Millie and Cupcake, in a few sentences.
The Story of a Girl and Her Wonderful Pet! For many children, the experience of bonding with and loving a first pet is an unforgettable time in their lives. Millie and Cupcake is the charming and educational story of a girl and her companion animal ... a different animal than many kids think of when choosing a pet.

Cupcake is a rat, and readers will be enchanted as they learn what rats are really like: clean, loving, highly intelligent, trainable personalities who add immeasurable value to people's lives. Follow along with Millie as she learns how to take care of her sociable, curious, and affectionate best friend.


 
Children's book author Mildred Potash

Who do you think would most appreciate Millie and Cupcake?
Small kids and  people that love animals.

What inspired you to write a book that addresses stereotypes associated with rats?
My pet rat Cupcake inspired me to write this book.

Tell us a bit about the protagonists, Millie and Cupcake.
Millie is shy and she loves animals just like myself. She becomes best friends with her new friend cupcake.

Why do you think there are so many negative stereotypes associated with rats?

When people hear the word rat they assume the rats are the sewer rats. They judge too quickly and think that rats are dirty and that they bite. Rats are the smartest pets and they are clean, funny, loving, and love human interactions.  Unlike hamsters, rats are always up and ready to play. I just want to get the message out there that rats make great pets

A major theme of your book is companionship between humans and non-humans. What are some benefits you’ve experienced from your own relationships with animal friends?

I have experienced the unconditional love and strong bonds from my pet rats.  Each one has their own special personality. They are great pets.

How long have you been writing?
I started writing for two years now.

How do you feel about the increasing popularity of ebooks?

ebooks are good but I prefer the physical book.

Do you write with a computer, typewriter, or pen and paper? Why do you use this tool?
I write  my ideas down on paper first and then I use the computer.  I use paper first so I don't forget my ideas.

What do you have in mind for your next project?

The second part of Millie and Cupcake is in the process of being published.  I also have some mini series lined up.

Is there anything else you'd like potential readers to know about your book?
My book is a cute story with good messages. It is about family, love, and friendship.



Book trailer for Millie and Cupcake
 
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Monday, April 27, 2015

Dan Alatorre, Author of Savvy Stories

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Today we are interviewing Dan Alatorre, author of "Savvy Stories: Funny Things I Learned From My Daughter."

Tell us a bit about yourself.
I’m a Best-Selling author and humorist; my brother points out that a humorist is a writer who’s not funny enough to call themselves a comedian. Gotta love family. I turned my sights on fatherhood in “Savvy Stories,” and the results were hilarious. I was just a normal guy until I became a first-time dad at the age of 47 - when most of my friends were becoming grandparents or sending their kids off to college! Some will argue that I was never a normal guy, but nobody will argue that the addition of a bouncing baby girl changed my life. My comedic debut book "Savvy Stories" tells humorous tales about a loving dad who sees the magic in children, and isn't a bumbling stooge about changing diapers like some TV sitcom. I followed up the success of "Savvy Stories" with the even better sequel "The TERRIBLE Two's," and my inspirational book "The Long Cutie," which deals with life affirming stories about people with a rare heart condition.

I also write short stories about parenting and family humor that appeal to everyone. My unique and hilarious short stories include “The Short Years,” “Night of The Colonoscopy,” and “A Quick Trip To BuyMart.” 

My success has been widespread and varied. I became a bestselling author (it was a slow sales week at Amazon) and I have achieved President’s Circle with two different Fortune 500 companies (can you believe that?). But I have always been a writer.

I wrote cartoons as a kid, created a newspaper at my grade school, was co-editor of my high school newspaper… I had a desire to tell unique stories in an amusing way. I’m glad my smart aleck sense of humor has found a productive outlet. I’m sure my sarcastic mouth could have just as easily gotten me killed and buried in a shallow grave.

Currently in the works are “FOURthcoming,” the conclusion to the Savvy Stories series, “Chase Me Until I Catch You,” a nonfiction romance short story, and “The Adventures Of Pinchy Pinchy Crab And Ramon D’Escargot,” a children’s novel, and others.

I live in the Tampa area with their dog and cat, and an occasional armadillo (“but we’re working on evicting the @#$% armadillo!”)

Describe your book in a few sentences.
“Savvy Stories” is a heartwarming comedy about a 47 year old man who discovers that he is about to become a father for the first time, and after getting over the shock of having a baby in the house, learns to see life through the eyes of a child. He comes to appreciate and enjoy the many hilarious things that all kids say and do, and creates a lifelong daddy-daughter bond that every parent can appreciate, and that every dad of a daughter should strive for. After all, men were little boys once; we know that territory. Having a little girl is uncharted water. We feel sure we’ll screw her up.

Who do you think would appreciate your book?
I’m surprised anybody does. Oops, did I say that out loud? I meant to say everybody does! This is a book that men and women both enjoy. The parents in the story are real, not idealized; they do real things like shop at Publix and Target, and they do a lot of stuff that we can all look back on and laugh about. Like when the kid discovers a Sharpie marker and writes all over the cabinets. Most of us have kids or were kids once, so we know there is a lot to laugh about. Women have said they appreciated the viewpoint about babies from a dad, and men have said the book was like I was writing about them. Pretty much everybody agrees it’s funny, even people who haven’t had kids. And more than a few have given it as a baby shower gift. When’s this interview coming out? It makes a great Mother’s Day gift, too! And Father’s Day!

Was there an epiphany that revealed you had to write a book about your fatherhood experience? Or did you gradually come around to the idea of writing your book?
There were two.
First, that kids are flat-out freaking hilarious if you are paying attention. Not just my kid, but every kid. A hundred times a day there are amazing moments that come and go so fast - and we’re too busy to take note or to remember it later. I just happened to write some of it down.


Second, they grow up fast. I was 47 when Savvy came along. We had infertility problems so we were especially appreciative to be having a baby at all, but also because I was older I had a different vantage point than most dads at age 22 or 25. My father and my brothers came to me and said, “We missed it, we were working. Take time to savor every moment because if you blink twice you’ll be walking her down the aisle.” Strangers would come up to us in grocery store after a particularly grueling night – I’m sure our weary expressions said it all - and they would tell us, “Enjoy these moments, even the difficult ones.” It sunk in. So I knew that it all happens fast. It doesn’t seem like it when you’re up at 3am feeding a cranky kid who won’t go back to sleep.

But we made that our time. We found ways to make it fun and special, and to realize that one day she’d be off to college and I’d wish I could have another moment with her like this, just me and her, at 3am playing a game of peek a boo. On that day, I’d wish I had this day back. So I learned to love those times. I could never have figured that out when I was twenty five.

As I posted about this stuff on Facebook, friends were constantly telling me it was hilarious and that I should write a book. I resisted, but at some point you have to trust the people in your life who have your best interests at heart. So I wrote a book - and it became a bestseller.

How do you think the perspective of fatherhood that you share in your book is different from other portrayals in the media?
Most dads on TV are bumbling stooges. Mine wasn’t; was yours? Still, it’s rare to see a man step up and say “I can be a great father and learn about gymnastics with my daughter and take her to dance lessons because I love her.” I can make time to blow bubbles on the back porch. It doesn’t cause your man card to be revoked. 

Also, in the book you see some very real, very personal moments. The first week of Savvy’s life was the longest week of ours. We spent five days in the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) worrying that our newborn daughter might die. It was touch and go for a while, and it was extremely difficult to write about. Chapter two gets a lot of people crying. But because we put that honesty out there, readers said “Okay, I can trust this guy.” Then they were better able to laugh with us, too.

Do you think your experience of being a father is different, having had your first child at 47, than it would have been if you’d had your first child at a younger age?
There is no doubt. I have a nephew whose son is a year older than my daughter. Our worlds are just so completely different. He’s a good guy and a good dad, but it’s a different perspective from what I’m looking at now that I’m fifty. And it should be. He’s building a career, I’m 20+ years into mine and established. He and his friends still party and go out to bars. My wife and I have friends over to the house and are lucky to stay up past 11pm. Okay 10:30.

Humor is a large part of your book. Has humor always been a part of your life or did it develop as you got older?

I came from a large family – seven kids – and I was next to youngest. So to get noticed, you had to stand out a little. Growing up, I had a sibling who was an athlete, another who was a scholar, another who was a musician; I was the smart aleck, and it got positive attention if it was funny. So I always appreciated that and did a lot to get that recognition, even at school. I wasn’t a class clown, because my parents were very strict and because nuns in general have no sense of humor. I mean zero, zip, nada. I wasted some of my best stuff on those old hags! Look at these knuckles - those are ruler marks, and they’re still visible all these years later. But I could usually get out of trouble at home if I could get my mom laughing. That’s a huge ace up your sleeve as a kid.

How would you describe your writing style? Are there any authors who have influenced your writing style?
I have what I’d call a lazy writing style. (My author friends would say there’s nothing lazy about me, that I’ll bang out 3000 words in a day or write 110,000 words over seven weeks, but that’s different.) I write most of my stores the way people talk, complete with an occasional run-on sentences and stuff that seems to go around in a few circles before making its point. In a comedy, you can do that. Readers get it, that’s part of the joke, the way Mark Twain used to ramble on, or Bill Cosby in his old LP recordings. There’s some deeper satisfaction to not requiring a joke every 90 seconds like a sitcom and just letting a laugh build – and I have no grudge against sitcoms; done well, they’re great entertainment. In my dramatic stories, my style is very different; it’s tighter, but my characters still talk the way normal people talk. They argue, they are sarcastic with each other, they joke around. I usually end up with one outrageous minor character in each book that people just rave about. We all have that one friend who says and does things that are a riot. A character like that is the salt in the soup: you want just enough to bring everything to life.

What do you have in mind for your next project?
If you get a writer to be honest – and that’s hard to do because they are shy, sneaky types – but under cross examination they’ll admit they’re like the kid who wants to be a firefighter and a police officer and an astronaut. Writers have a dozen ideas they’re working on. I have the final book in the Savvy Stories series written, called “FOURTHcoming;” a sci-fi thriller “The Navigators,” and a paranormal mystery “An Angel On Her Shoulder.” Those are finished, they’re just being edited and maybe need a few final tweaks. I have Dr. Seuss-like kid’s book written called “Stinky Toe” and we are looking at illustrators for that.

In process I have a romantic comedy called “Poggibonsi” about a man who has a midlife crisis while on a business trip to Italy - and it’s a scream. Some of my funniest characters are in that story. It’ll be finished in about two months, maybe less. Upcoming we have “The Water Castle,” a fantasy about a young lady who discovers a portal that takes her back in time; there is a sequel to “The Navigators,” a mystery thriller called “The Kill Club,” a romance called “Chase Me Until I Catch You,” and maybe most importantly, a book series for authors that shows how to market a book. Those are all in various stages of being written. Like I said, a firefighter and a police officer and an astronaut… It’s a sickness.

Is there anything else you'd like potential readers to know about your book?
I’d like writers to know that my first bestseller was a cookbook, so remember to be open to trying new things. From that experience I learned things about marketing a book that benefitted me greatly and, combined with my sales management experience with Fortune 500 companies, I was able to launch a string of bestsellers. (My marketing book will show new authors some of the things they need to do to be successful.) I’m proud to say I’ve helped several authors take their books from ideas to reality. One friend released her book in February and has already sold over 2000 copies and has 30+ positive reviews. It’s a great book, and I played a small role in helping it get to many people who have enjoyed it and who are now fans. 


I’d like readers to know that I’ve been very fortunate to have been able to share my stories with so many people around the world who have enjoyed them. One friend says that if you read a few paragraphs of Dan’s work, you’ll read the whole book. I write stories that anyone can enjoy, and I like hearing from fans. It is deeply moving to read a letter from Spain or somewhere that says they read my book and fell in love with my daughter. Or that a book I wrote changed their life. It is amazing to be on the receiving end of that, and I will work hard to continue to earn it each and every day.  

An excerpt from "Savvy Stories":
The other family sees me piling the prepared meals into my cart, and has obviously noticed that I’m getting food that’s below my kid’s eating age. That is, I’m buying stuff for a 9 month old – mostly pureed – instead of the stuff with big chunks.  
“Excuse me,” asks the woman, her man behind her and the kid in the shopping cart. “Can I ask you a question?”  
“Sure,” I reply, smiling. Usually I would have ignored them because I’m not there to make friends or defend my purchase selections – which I agree is rude and unsocial; but I have experienced the Publix Meltdown twice by now and I need to be able to buy groceries somewhere. I can’t afford to scratch Target off my list, too.  
But for some reason, I am feeling friendly and confident today, so I turn to engage these nice folks in conversation.  
“Well,” she begins, “I notice you are buying foods for a child younger than this one…” She gestures to Savvy, who is enjoying playing with the stuff I’ve thrown in the cart. “May I ask you why?”  
She was about as polite as a person could be while questioning your nutritional decisions for your kid, but what she was really doing was asking why I’m buying stuff that’s mostly pureed for a kid who has teeth.  
“Yeah, I’m getting these partly because I’m lazy and partly because she likes them… she can eat them quickly and easily without spitting up; unlike the chunkier stuff, but…”  
Here comes the payoff.  
“She’s getting all the right nutrients and I figure it’s not going to affect what college she goes to.”  
BOOM  
The dad is doing an end zone dance behind his wife, smiling from ear to ear; the mom is displaying a look of passive acceptance. I suppose this is what they had been discussing – arguing, for those who’ve been married a while – and he agreed with me, which made it 2 to 1, and since she was outnumbered, she agreed to get the stuff that their kid could actually eat.

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